Let go, damn you!

Do not, under any circumstance behave like a garden creeper. Clinging on to things will not yield any happiness in the long run. Instead be a cactus. Hold your own, depend on no one. Don't expose your vulnerabilities to the scorching sunlight. Hide it behind a covering of prickly thorns.

The ladder of priority

Everyone has a ladder of priority. Things of importance are generally found atop the ladder. As the significance of a person/thing dwindles, the lower the rung they occupy. So, girls, if you are anywhere below the first rung on anyone's priority ladder, it is time you smear slime on the frame of this ladder and watch the "things of greater significance" plummet. In the meanwhile, don't give the said person a rooftop view on your ladder.